My first date last Thursday with A* went well - it included a kiss on the cheek and a 2nd quick kiss on the lips (ooah). The 3rd man ever to kiss me on the lips. And I just got an SMS an hour ago for a 2nd date for tomorrow night (Tuesday). Wow, I don’t think I have ever been on a 2nd date…
The first date was a “surface” date, I did reveal some small, revealing things and was honestly surprised when he requested a second date. Although I like to think of myself as intelligent, I thought he might think I was too “simple” for his tastes. Having grown up in a housing commission fibro and my consquent chosen adult life of simplicity, low spending and low maintenance seemed to be against some things he talked about in his lifestyle, but I do have a 2nd date nonetheless. I have some small doubts, but I think (hope) he is a nice guy. I think this 2nd date will require me to be more open about who I am and what I want, so that I don’t waste his time and he can move on if I am too oppositional to who he is.
P.S. He has nice eyes.
The other guy I have been IMing with, M*, stuffed me around once again. A date = a day+ time + location. If I ask you 3 times for the exact time and you don’t respond, forget it. And then at the last minute you try to change the suburb location? I guess he is used to being a free spirit or he is married and only asks for meetups when the wife’s back is turned… He seems like the type of person who lives life spontaneously, without a schedule, which is pretty much the exact opposite of me. I need a schedule to manage my anxiety, I can’t handle immediate spontaneity. Press pause on this one.
Thirdly, I received an email from N* who I also met at speed dating. It is a generic email but nice to receive it nonetheless. I am honestly a little bit scared of this guy. During the 6 minute speed date, my dead brother was brought up and he related it to a widowed ex girlfriend he had. He delved much deeper than surface level on a speed date. It is somewhat scary to consider that he could unwrap my complicated layers so quickly, but at the same time it’s intriguing that he is more of a deep thinker than the other guys I met at speed dating.
A* is 38yo to my 36yo, however N* is 42yo to my 36yo which is OK as I decided that anyone below my crush RDJ’s 44yo was fair game 
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